Apexians, Family & Friends,,,,,,,,
"Merry Christmas & Happy New Year 2011"
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Yours In Apex,
Mai Edward
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Saturday, December 18, 2010
"Merry Christmas & Happy New Year 2011"
Apexians, Family & Friends,,,,,,,,
"Merry Christmas & Happy New Year 2011"
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Yours In Apex,
Mai Edward
Saturday, December 11, 2010
Dinner Notice 884th , 15th December 2010,Jade Palace Restaurant, Abd Sette Lane, Penang4th -6th March 2011 National Mid-Term Meeting of Apex Clubs of
4th -6th March 2011 National Mid-Term Meeting of Apex Clubs of Malaysia
5th March 2011
Grand Dinner--Celebrating 40 Years of Apex in Penang
VISTANA HOTEL, Jalan Bukit Gambir,Penang.
"As the Holiday Season is upon us, we find ourselves reflecting on the past year and on those who have helped to shape Apex Club of Penang in a most significant way. We value our relationship with you and look forward to working with you in the year to come. We wish you a very happy Holiday Season and a New Year filled with peace and prosperity."
" Merry Christmas & Happy New Year "
Dinner Notice 884
Place : Jade Palace Restaurant ,Abd Sitte Lane,Penang.
Date : 15th December 2010
Time : 7.30pm fellowship
Chairman : Terrie Loo
Finemaster : Balan Menon
MINUTES OF THE 883rd MEETING OF APEX CLUB OF PENANG
HELD ON 01/12/10, 8PM AT JADE PALACE RESTAURANT, PENANG
Attendance: Pres Jason Ang, Sr Apexian Victor Corbett, Angie Low, Terrie Loo,
Lifer Tony Ng, Mike Ong, Edward Mai, Jane Chan, Danny Tan,
Jonathan Shoo, Terrie Loo, Balan Menon, Anthony Jayakumar and
Prospexian Lee Kai Eng.
Apology: Gurmeet Singh, Ai Choo & Jacquelyn Soon On Leave : Ryan Tang
1.0 Amendment to Minutes
1.1 The new date of Mid-Term (point 2.2) was amended to: 4/3/2011 – 6/3/2011.
2.0 Confirmation of Minutes
2.1 The 882nd Minutes held on 17/11/10 was proposed for adoption by Angie Low
and seconded by Danny Tan.
3.0 Coming Mid-Term to be hosted by Apex Pg / 40th Anniversary landmark.
3.1 Terrie Loo did the costing and Edward proposed the following rates :-
i) Full Mid-Term Convention package @ RM180.00 per person.
ii) Grand Dinner alone – @ RM 100.00 per person or @ RM 700.00 per table
iii) Pre-social & Grand Dinner @ RM150.00 per person.
3.2 Pre-Social on 4/3/2011 is by poolside, Grand Dinner involving 45 tables is on
5/3/2011.
3.3 Hotel rates at Vistana is RM135.00 for Deluxe with breakfast for 1 person while
RM150.00 for twin sharing with breakfast for 2 persons.
3.4 Edward has made a RM3,000 deposit to the hotel.
3.5 Victor claimed that as 5/3/2011 is a Penang Race day, he would be unable to
attend the Mid-Term Meeting. Nevertheless, he would attend the Dinner.
3.6 Victor will follow up with the relevant authorities for a site at the Speakers’
Corner, The Esplanade, for our 40th Anniversary landmark.
3.7 Apex Pg will sponsor 2 Indonesian Apexians to attend. Edward can home host
them. Apex Pg to bear the air tickets ex-Bali & Mid-Term fees. Terrie will check
with Apexian Kate Huth the cost of the air tickets.
3.8 Edward also pledged to further sponsor 7 Apexians from The Philippines.
4.0 Apex Pg ‘Bursary Fund’
4.1 Victor is confident his Company will consider our appeal for RM4K donations.
4.2 The Charity Treasure Hunt is on 17 April 2011. A mini-hunt on trishaw within
The Heritage Trail will be included. The Hunt is targeted to raise RM50,000, as earlier proposed by Prospexian Lee.
4.3 Edward asked Mike Ong to prepare letters to appeal for sponsorship and prizes.
4.4 Angie Low explained that there is an eligible student at TAR. Members decided that a Committee be formed to set guidelines and rules before awards are given.
President Jason will obtain a sample of such guidelines for consideration.
4.5 Members agreed to name the Fund: Apex Pg Education Fund.
5.0 Other Directors’ Reports
5.1 There is no response from Apex Pg Youth to Philippines Conventions, next May.
5.2 Edward reported that Job-Link inmates are going to Cameron Highlands
instead of Malacca. Apex Pg will provide T-shirts and members can donate cash
to them as they need some funding. The group will leave on Friday & coming
back Saturday.
5.3 Edward explained he had commitments from 3 local youth & 2 Aussie youth to
climb Mt Kinabalu & plant Apex flag. A fund raising would also be held.
5.4 Edward informs about “Apex Youth Exchange Program- Perth 2 Singapore”.
Students Stephanie Meredith and Hannah Rogers will be home hosted by
Edward from 13/12/2010 to 15/12/2010. Itinerary as follow:-
i) 13/12/2010 – both will arrive from Malacca. Treat for them at E&O or Japanese food.
ii) 14/12/2010 – Dim Sum and tour to Inari factory. Lunch at Pineapple Restaurant, thereafter tour by Apex Pg Youth. Dinner treat by Victor.
iii) 15/12/2010 – Program by Apex Pg Youth. Attend Pg Apex Dinner Meeting.
iv) 16/12/2010 - Bon voyage to them, back to Singapore. Members welcomed to sponsor them air tickets.
5.5 Mike Ong informed that Apexian CS Naidu would be bringing some Apexians
from India to Penang in Mid-December. Angie Low will try to assist them rent a
place to stay in Batu Ferringhi.
6.0 Other Matters
6.1 Lifer Tony Ng said total Fines stood at RM425.80 @ 30/11/2010.
6.2 Fines Collection for the night: RM 37.00
6.2 Meeting was then adjourned, proposed by Balan & seconded by Terrie.
Minutes Proposed by: ……… Seconded by:……… Prepared by: Mike Ong
How to Break Up with a Nice Guy
Breaking up with a nice guy? Show him the same respect he's always given you by following seven key steps. They are ones that will make your decision less hurtful to him and preserve your reputation of being a sweet (fair) girl.
Step 1: Be serious.
Do you really want to part ways or just go on a date with another man? Before you play pretend with your boyfriend in order to test out a potential new lover, make sure you're serious. Don't treat your current sweetheart like a yo-yo that can be pulled back and forth into a relationship.
Step 2: Meet privately.
Break up with your nice guy face-to-face and in private. Invite him over or join him for a walk in a secluded park. Then, say your piece. By staying out of the limelight, you give him the opportunity to hear what you have to say without distraction and respond genuinely.
Step 3: Tell the truth.
Maintain your integrity when you split with your boyfriend by being honest. Avoid making up a story like you're moving out of the area to pursue a new career or have to devout all of your free time to caring for a sick relative. He'll know you're lying to him anyway and be insulted by your behavior. So, trust that he can handle the truth and give him the real reason behind your decision.
Step 4: Stay respectful.
When you break up with your nice guy, act courteous. The truth doesn't have to be brutal. Avoid using disrespectful labels like "poor lover" or "loser". These types of tags are hard for anyone to shake and can affect a person's future relationships. Plus, your view of your soon-to-be ex is subjective. The next woman might adore all of the attributes you hate about him.
Step 5: Act understanding.
After you tell your boyfriend that you want to move on, be understanding. He may react with anger, disbelief or stoicism. Many men do because they aren't socialized like women to be in touch with their feelings. Give him a boatload of compassion even if you think he should have seen that things weren't working out. Remember, one day, you might be on the other end of this type of situation and want the same consideration.
Step 6: Decline his services.
Unfortunately, some women who break up with nice guys keep them around afterwards only for personal gain. Don't resort to this type of foolishness. Although your ex-boyfriend might still be willing to come over and take out the trash, pay a few bills and do laundry, decline his help. Advise him to provide these services to another woman, one who loves him and is committed to him.
Step 7: Remain quiet (for a while).
Before you start spreading the word about your failed relationship, keep quiet for a while. Give your ex-boyfriend at least a week to fall into his new status. This way, when his boys start asking him about you, he can tell them first and not be ambushed by gossip.
Use these seven steps when you break up with your nice guy. Save your dirty tricks for a bad boy. You know, the dude who ran up your credit cards and slept with two of your girlfriends. Nice men are hard to find and you might want to rekindle your relationship in the future after you find out that he's the only man willing to treat you like a queen.
Wednesday, December 8, 2010
Mount Kinabalu Climbathon in Aid of Apex Penang Education Fund/ Mid-Term Regristration form/ Appeal for Advertisement/Apex Australia's Founders Fund T
APEX AUSTRALIA’S FOUNDERS FUND TRAVEL
I have been notified by Kate, the National IRO of Apex Australia that they are inviting applications from each Apex countries to have nominations for the above founders fund travel.
This does not need to be for the Mass Tour in Queensland from 6th – 18th January 2011. But the successful traveller will be hosted by one of the State Conventions from March – June 2011 since Apex Australia does not host National Convention for 2011.
Those interested can submit your applications to my home address as above. The guidelines are as per our Apex Handbook on Section B from pages 15 – 16. (Reproduced for your easy reference).
NATIONAL TRAVEL FUND
Rules & Regulations
1) Objectives of this Fund
a) To encourage and assist local Apexians to travel and participate in the activities of affiliated overseas clubs/associations.
b) To promote international understanding, friendship and personal contacts by exposing members to the workings of clubs/associations in other countries.
2) Approving & Administrative Committee
The approving and administrative committee shall be headed by the National International Relations Director and shall include the National Apex Action and Expansion Director and the National Treasurer. Other National Board members may be invited to sit in at the discretion of the chairman.
3) Operational Procedures
3.1) Duties of the Approving & Administrative Committee
a) The National International Relations Director shall from time to time and as and when required write to all clubs to inform of all approved/sanctioned travel activities. Full details of the activities including type of activity, duration, confirmed dates, approximate costs involved, quantum of funds available for subsidies and other relevant information shall also be circulated.
b) Notice of such travel plans shall be forwarded well in advance but not later than six (6) weeks before the event.
c) The National International Relations Director shall at all times maintain records of circulars, correspondences, travel information, list and status of applicants, quantum of funds available and other relevant information.
3.2) Duties of Clubs/Applicants
a) Besides applying for subsidies from the approved list of travel activities circulated by the National International Relations Director, clubs may also apply for travel subsidy for their members to attend special activities of affiliated overseas clubs/associations which in their opinion shall be beneficial to the club and/or the association.
b) Applications for travel subsidy shall be submitted to the National International Relations Director well in advance but not later than four (4) weeks before the event.
c) The application for the subsidy shall include but not limited to the following details:
i) Name of applicant (member)
ii) Position held at club or national level
iii) Record of member’s travel activities undertaken with any form of subsidy or grant for the preceding three (3) years
iv) Related travel details:
§ Destination
§ Duration of stay
§ Date/day of departure
§ Cost of actual air-fare (economy rate)
v) Name of host club/association
vi) Purpose of visit
4) Eligibility
a) A member who is in benefit and has been active for a minimum of three (3) consecutive years at the time of his application.
b) A member who has received any grant or subsidy from WOCO or its affiliates or from this fund for the preceding one (1) full year from date of application shall not be eligible for any subsidy.
5) Quantum of the Subsidy
a) The amount to be set aside as subsidies from the National Travel Fund for the year in question shall be determined by the National Board and such information shall be communicated to all clubs by the chairman of the Approving & Administrative Committee.
b) Clubs should also be notified when the approved amount has been fully utilised.
c) The considerations for subsidy shall be based on the availability of funds and on the number of applicants.
d) The quantum of the travel subsidy shall follow a graduated scale as stated below.
i) 1st application : 20% - 40% of ticket cost
ii) 2nd application : 20% - 30% of ticket cost
iii) 3rd and subsequent applications : 10% - 20% of ticket cost
6) Closing Date and Acceptance
a) All applications should reach the National International Relations Director at least four (4) weeks before date of departure.
b) The National International Relations Director shall inform all applicants of their status not later than two (2) weeks before departure date.
c) The successful applicant/s shall be paid only after return from his/her travel and upon receiving a satisfactory report.
7) Obligations of the Recipient
a) Within 6 weeks upon return from his/her trip, the recipient/s of this Travel Fund shall submit a written report (with photographs if any) to the National International Relations Director.
b) The report shall include details of the travel, observations, impressions and experiences of the member.
c) The report, if accepted by the Approving & Administrative Committee, may be reproduced in the “Malaysian Apexian” of the term.
d) The approved subsidy shall then be paid out.
Club Presidents and Board members are encouraged to identify successful candidates to grab this opportunity to understand and appreciate international friendship and understanding and through the experience to serve the clubs and national body level for the community and not someone who is selected to serve their own needs.
We have seen in the past the number Founders Fund Travellers disappear from the association after they return.
These are the updates for now and all other international events are as per my circular 1 which is reproduced for your reference.
That’s all for now and meet you in my next circular. As I’m travelling , I may not be able to be reached by phone but you send your message to my email address and I will reply you on the following day.
REDEFINING APEX FOR THE YOUTH
Yours faithfully
Apexian Dr. M. Arokianathan
National International Relations Director 2010/2011
Apex Malaysia
Tuesday, November 30, 2010
Dinner Notice 883rd, 1st December 2010. Jade Palace Restaurant, Abd Sitte Lane, Penang
4th -6th March 2011 National Mid-Term Meeting of Apex Clubs of Malaysia
5th March 2011
Grand Dinner--Celebrating 40 Years of Apex in Penang
VISTANA HOTEL, Jalan Bukit Gambir,Penang.
Dinner Notice 883
Place : Jade Palace Restaurant ,Abd Sitte Lane,Penang.
Date : 1st December 2010
Time : 7.30pm fellowship
Chairman : Victor Corbett
Finemaster : Tony Ng
MINUTES OF THE 882nd MEETING OF APEX CLUB OF PENANG
HELD ON 17/11/10, 8PM AT JADE PALACE RESTAURANT, PENANG
Attendance: Pres Jason Ang, Sr Apexian Victor Corbett, Angie Low, Terrie Loo,
Lifer Tony Ng, Mike Ong, Amy Yeap, Jane Chan, Danny Tan and
Jonathan Shoo.
Apology: Balan Menon, Edward Mai, Anthony Jayakumar, Lifer Andrew Ong
Jacquelyn Soon and Ai Choo. On Leave : Ryan Tang
1.0 Confirmation of Minutes
1.1 The 881st Minutes held on 03/11/10 was proposed for adoption by Angie Low
and seconded by Terrie Loo.
2.0 Coming Mid-Term to be hosted by Apex Pg / 40th Anniversary landmark.
2.1 Mike Ong reported on behalf of Edward that the new venue is Vistana Hotel,
Jalan Bukit Gambir. The pre-social (on 4/3/2011) shall be by the poolside
while the Grand Dinner on 5/3/2011 at Ballroom has been booked for 45 tables.
Edward has made a RM3,000 deposit to the hotel and will work on the costing.
2.2 Victor asked to record his displeasure of the new venue and the change of date
to 4/3/2011 to 5/3/2011..
2.3 Victor will follow up with the relevant authorities for a site at the Speakers’
Corner, The Esplanade, for our 40th Anniversary landmark.
2.4 Apex Pg will sponsor 2 Indonesian Apexians to attend. Edward can home host
them. Apex Pg to bear the flight cost ex-Bali & Mid-Term fees. Edward had also
pledged earlier to further sponsor 7 Apexians from The Philippines.
3.0 Apex Pg ‘Bursary Fund’
3.1 Victor said that his appeal for RM4,000 donations is under consideration by his
Company.
3.2 The Charity Treasure Hunt is in April 2011. A mini-hunt on trishaw within the
Heritage Trail will be included to make it more exciting. The Hunt is targeted
to raise RM50,000, as earlier proposed by Prospexian Lee.
3.3 Angie Low will follow up with the Student Affairs Officer of Pg TAR College.
3.4 Members agreed to name the Fund: Apex Pg Education Fund.
4.0 Adoption of inmates at Cheshire Home Foster Parents’ Day on 6/11/2010
4.1 Pres Jason, Victor, Edward, Lifer Tony Ng, Jane Chan, Mike and Prospexian
Lee attended the function. The Guang Min press published the photograph of
Jason and Mike on stage to present cheque to Toh Puan, the Governor’s wife.
5.0 Other Directors’ Reports
5.1 Pg Apex Youth members were encouraged to accept Edward’s proposed
sponsorship to the Philippines Convention in May 2011. So far there is no
response.
5.2 Members want to participate in the proposed trip from 2nd to 6th Dec 2010 to
Malacca for inmates of Job-Link. Edward to liaise with Malacca Central to host
a lunch for the entourage. Apex Pg will provide T-shirts while IRM other funds.
5.3 Reporting on behalf of Edward, Mike said Edward had enlisted 3 local youth
and 2 Australian youth to climb Mt Kinabalu and plant Apex flag there. A fund
raising would also be held.
6.0 Other Matters
6.1 Fines Collection : RM 14.00
6.2 Meeting was then adjourned, proposed by Terrie & seconded by Lifer Tony.
Minutes Proposed by: ……… Seconded by:……… Prepared by: Mike Ong
Student exchange, Hannah and Stephanie will be hosted by Apex Club of Penang ,13th-16th December 2010
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